Remember back in November when I turned 50 and I said it was no big deal to me?
Yeah, so I lied. ๐
Well, I didn't actually lie because at the time I felt that way but now, two plus months out, I feel a bit differently. ๐ต
As you may or may not know I have been having some health issues since about last March. I wrote about it in the blog post "On Turning 50...and a 2010 surgery reboot". I had my hernia repair surgery on 12/17/2020 and let me tell you, my 50 year old self does NOT recover like I used to. Its been nearly eight weeks since my surgery and truth be told, I do not feel better. I am not barfing anymore so that is a HUGE blessing but the pain and lack of appetite is still around. I have had some more testing including a colonoscopy which have netted zero results. As a matter of fact, the prep for the colonoscopy made things worse. I had to drink two bottles of that vile magnesium citrate and midway through the second one, I threw up for 40 minutes. ๐คฎTMI, I am aware but you know that's how I roll. When that happened I felt something "tear" in my back and have been in terrible pain ever since. I tried everything to make it better but nothing alleviated the pain. Went back to the bariatric surgeon and he said that I likely ripped my hernia repair up. However, there is nothing he can do until I am three months out from surgery. He said that "maybe" it was just a hematoma or some other stress on the surgical site but given my symptoms he is pretty sure I tore myself up. So, I am basically back to square one. On the positive, he told me to start eating "real" food again so anything goes as long as I can tolerate it. ๐ฒ๐
It's been rough but I have decided that every day I feel like I can, I am getting out of this apartment. I have spent the better part of December , all of January and so far most of this month suffering while being cooped up. No more though! If I am going to feel bad no matter what I do then I might as well get out of here and walk or take photos or take day trips or whatever I can do. The depression is real. I miss my friends and my family. I'm sick of being sick, and I am sick of Covid.
I got to see my sister today. From the window of my apartment. Through the window of her car. For the first time since September. Enough is enough. I am not even feeling well enough today to go downstairs to talk to her while she sits in her car. It's insane and I am over it. I mean seriously. If I am going to feel like dog crap what difference does it make where I am at while I feel like dog crap.
So, there you have it. Yesterday I went out in 20 degree weather ๐งand went to a few different places at Mill Creek Park. Mark comes home tomorrow for 48 hours and we have running around to do. When he leaves on Thursday, I might take a ride to Lake Erie. Who knows! Life is too short and I simply cannot sit in this apartment by myself any more.
Anyway, that's what's up. What have you been up to?
Anyone have big Valentine's Day plans? I am going to surprise Mark will an early Valentines dinner on Tuesday. He will be totally shocked because normally I don't give a hoot about this "holiday". I even got him a card! ๐๐
Lois and Helen are doing great. They have been such a bright spot for me in an otherwise miserable time. I'm so thankful to have them. Lois is a little crazy but so sweet. She follows me everywhere I go and puts up with all my crazy photographing her. Helen is a lot less tolerant of a camera up in her grill. She is more independent and is a very typical cat meaning she picks and chooses when she wants to show and receive affection. I have become quite a "crazy cat lady". I bought them houses, hammocks for the window and most recently a kitty drinking fountain. I thought it would keep Lois out of the sink, but it doesn't. ๐๐ธ
I am planning a trip to NC at the end of February or beginning of March. I am really looking forward to seeing the boys and hopefully some of my friends down there.
Praying for health and safety for all of you! ๐ท
Thanks for reading and much love to all.๐
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